Secret Six-Discipline
How to hide your buttons from
your students.
I was thrilled when I happened to
read this section today. I have continued to struggle with three 14-year-old
boys in my eighth grade placement. Today, while teaching my unit plan on the Articles
of Confederation, one of the boys decided to lean back and allow everything to
drop out of his desk. I repeatedly warned him. I broke the rules of
confrontation and addressed his behavior in class (and peers). How did it go?
Not too hot! While there was no escalation in tempers, he continued to perform
tricks to WOW his friends. I lost this battle precisely because of
confrontation.
As part of my discipline policy
adopted from my cooperating teacher, I should have addressed this issue with an individual by
retraining him on his own time. This
would have eliminated the confrontation and not showed the students that they
successfully pushed my buttons. Next time, I will address the issue head a
warning, then proceed to a retraining reminder on the students’ time (lunch or
after school). Finally, I will continue
to teach and not react.
Consistency goes hand in hand with
the discipline. At the beginning of the school year, I will have students
create a list of classroom rules and procedures (and add a few of my own). We
would practice these procedures for several weeks until they become a normal
part of the daily routine. The classroom rules would be displayed near the
front door for all to see. If a student chooses to misbehave, I would initially
use proximity to stop the behavior and redirect the student. The next step
would be to address the student quietly on the side and remind the student of
the consequences for his or her behavior. Finally, I would follow through with
swift action without disrupting the flow of the class.
More importantly, I LOVED the idea
of finding an alternative way to redirect the students from negative behaviors.
I’ve already begun incorporating the running of errands or assignment of
in-class tasks. Students are given an alternate job to do such as returning
graded papers to their peers. I’ve also focused in on the shy and troubled
students by asking them to help me teach portions of lessons in class. Students
also love to hear their names in examples. I believe by taking the positive
approach and utilizing a bit of reverse psychology that students will be easily
disarmed. My job just got easier!
Finally, knowing what students are
looking for in a teacher also helps me fulfill their needs. Learning how to
accommodate (within reason) the needs of my individual students, I believe that
I can easily make the ideal teacher into a realistic one. I can easily see how
my actions (not reactions) will influence the outcome of learning for students
in my current and future classrooms. Discipline will continue to be a challenge
for me until I affectively learn how to be consistent and non-engaging when hit
with an unruly child!
I think that a lot of us upcoming teachers as well as teachers now struggle with calling kids out in front of their peers. I appreciate your honesty with how you failed in that discipline area. It's something I think that in the heat of the moment we forget and try to maybe "one up" the students and show them who is boss in front of everyone, and that gets up nowhere. So that is an important reminder. Thank you for sharing!
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